If you want something done right, do it yourself. I am certain that this old adage is familiar to you, but in this era of specialization, does it still ring true? Those of us who had to cut our own hair during the pandemic may feel it doesn’t. And when you think of certain technical disciplines or fields that require specialized skills or knowledge that literally take years to master it doesn’t make sense at all.
However, there is one area though where doing it yourself can make sense and can lead to a better result. The area I am referring to is delivering soft skills training to your team.
Now, you might be thinking that I have lost my mind. Doesn’t training require a skill of facilitating that is honed by years of practice? And doesn’t training require knowledge that may take years to learn? Time is in limited supply and don’t I already have enough to do? I’ll try to answer each of these, but first, let’s look at why training your own team can be so effective.
The purpose of training is typically to impart new skills that result in a desired change in behaviour. You may send your team on spreadsheet training to become more proficient at preparing information so that their resulting reports are more accurate and reader friendly while at the same time freeing up more time for them to attend to other responsibilities. But training in itself is not enough to guarantee you will get the change in behaviour that you are looking for. Studies have shown that the quality of training is not the most important determinant of behaviour change. The most important predictor of behaviour change related to training is management and how they talk about and support the training. Specifically, it depends on what managers do before, during and after the training takes place. Do they help participants understand how the training will help them in their job performance? Do they communicate why it is important and how it will impact them personally? Do they talk about the training in a manner that speaks of this importance? Do they participate actively in the training itself? Do they follow up on the training?
When you lead the training on soft skills, by your very actions you are communicating the importance of the training for your employees’ performance and personal success. In addition, you have the opportunity to ensure that the training is directly relevant to the attendees by including examples and describing situations that resonate with them. You can make certain that the training speaks to the overall strategy of the organization and your employees’ role in that strategy. When you deliver the training, you are more likely to follow up and to mention various aspects of the training during future meetings. In short, by delivering the training yourself, you can help to embed the concepts into the culture of your organization and clearly answer the question of why you are doing this.
Delivering training to your team also provides you with the flexibility to adjust the training schedule to meet the needs of the business. You can schedule the training to take place all at once, or spread it out over several sessions. You can create “homework” assignments to allow participants to practice the key concepts by applying what they have learned in the field. And best of all, you can make these changes literally on the fly.
So, let’s go back to the questions raised previously. Leading soft skills training for your team has great benefits, but doesn’t it require facilitation skills, subject matter expertise and time? Let’s consider these in turn.
Facilitation skills: Facilitation is an important skill that all good trainers rely on and it is true that good trainers have honed these skills over time. But, with a little guidance, most of us with little or no experience can facilitate effective discussions that get the critical points across. Remember, we’re not facilitating high-level discussions between world leaders to find the secret to ever lasting peace. We are simply trying to engage the class in discussions and exercises to help them discover the key learning principles for themselves.
Knowledge: The knowledge required for customer service training is simply common sense. In fact, customer service training is one of those subjects where everyone already has the core knowledge, including those who are there for the training. Everyone knows that they should be polite, tuck in their shirts and practice good grooming to make a favourable impression for example. Therefore, those that don’t demonstrate good customer service skills are typically not ignorant of what constitutes good customer service, they just choose not to apply what they know. That means that the challenge of getting behaviour change in soft skills training is not a matter of teaching participants what to do, but rather why to do it. (And that is why management involvement is so important).
Time: By training your team in customer service, you are taking time away from some of the other things that you could be doing. There is no getting around this. Time is a limited resource and if you spend it doing one thing, it has to come at the expense of not having the time to do something else. The question has to be, is my time as a manager well used if I spend some of it training my team in customer service? To answer this question, we need to consider how we are measured as managers. Many years ago I was struck by the truth in the statement, “As managers, we are recognized not so much for what we do, but for what our team does.” While we as managers are measured and compensated for obtaining certain results, it is our employees’ efforts that generate those outcomes. So, if the performance of our employees determines our success, then it makes sense to do all that we can to help our employees perform at their best. From this perspective, training our employees no longer looks like a separate task outside of the role of “managing” but rather an integral part of the role.
So, if it makes sense to lead the customer service training for our employees, maybe we should change the old adage to read: If you want customer service training done right, do it yourself.
“As managers, we are recognized not so much for what we do, but for what our team does.”