Don’t make promises you can’t keep was one of the common maxims in our household when I was growing up. Wise advice. I was reminded of the importance of this message just last week and that sometimes, it is better to turn business away rather than disappoint. Have you found that you sometimes take on work or make commitments for which you have a low likelihood of fulfilling?
While visiting family in the UK, we decided to take a brief break in a part of the country we had not been before. We headed for Cambridge and the wonderful colleges and booked a small inn in a village not far from the city. It was an old stone building that had recently been converted. We found it on the internet and were impressed with the descriptions previous patrons had written about it. Quaint, attentive, old-world character, friendly staff. Perfect.
We drove out to Cambridge full of anticipation and, by early evening, we found this small, quaint “post card” inn situated on the quiet main street of the village. There was a newly constructed glassed-in dining area at the back and a large parking lot which was almost full. Must be a popular spot! As we walked past the dining room to the entrance, we noticed that it too was full. It turns out that there was a wedding that evening.
Check-in was friendly but not exceptional. The room was small, clean and functional. It overlooked the glassed-in dining area – we could look down and see the wedding party having dinner. We went out to dinner ourselves. We returned about 9:30, both tired and ready for bed. However, sleep was not to come easy.
By the time we returned, the wedding was in full swing. The music was loud – very loud. Too loud! Our little room literally shock to the beat. We called the front desk to ask for another room and were informed that they were fully booked. There was nothing else available. We were stuck. The music continued until almost midnight. We decided to grin and bear it.
At check out we expressed our disappointment. We explained that we had expected a quiet, relaxing stay as promised on their website but we experienced just the opposite. We felt that we should have been told about the wedding at the time of booking and advised about the noise problem associated with the room we were given. We then could have made an informed decision about whether to stay there. The inn should have been prepared to turn us away but instead chose to fall terribly short on their promise. Instead of more raving fans, they created raving detractors. We certainly won’t recommend this place and will avoid it on any future visit.
I think the lesson has direct applicability to the service business and yes we sometimes take on work or make commitments for which we have a low likelihood of fulfilling. Usually the commitments come with the best of intentions and are often made in the heat of the moment. Sometimes we think we are doing it simply because we don’t want to let the customer down. Regardless of the intentions, whenever we make promises we can’t keep, it ends in the same result. Disappointed customers and possibly raving detractors.
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Jim
“Life is like photography, we develop from the negatives.”
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